When I ask for money as a gift, though, what my family would be giving me money for in a gifty way is the summer trip to Amsterdam that Jay and I want to make, and maybe sidetrip to England to meet some NC people
I give everyone cookies and candy and fudge 1)because I like to bake 2)because Jay and I are poor and 3)because a lot of people don't want more clutter in their lives.